This came across my facebook feed and it really mirrors my approach to life. I hope it helps.
~Ms Abby Kay~
This came across my facebook feed and it really mirrors my approach to life. I hope it helps.
~Ms Abby Kay~
So many make resolutions that they never keep but this list will probably help with some of those standard resolutions but add fun to the year and leave you with memories.
Let’s jump right in:
1. Eliminate one bad food from your diet
This could be something as simple as soda or ‘see drink’ as we call it in Trinidad. I have pretty much eliminated adding any sugar to my drinks and try to stay away from refined sugars.
Alternatively you could add one healthy thing to your diet to make it easier. Like adding eating one fruit a day (even if it’s a tomato).
2. DANCE! – Recommendation : Salsa Fiesta TnT 2018
Salsa Fiesta TnT is a weekend long Latin dance celebration in Trinidad and Tobago. Held annually at Cascadia hotel. This year it will be held from May 31st to June 3rd. Think shows, workshops and parties. The Thursday kicks off with a show and after party at Cascadia Hotel; Friday is an International Show at Queens Hall followed by an after-party at Cascadia Hotel; Saturday is a full day of workshops in different genres of dance at the hotel, followed by another International Show at Queens Hall and back to the hotel for another party. WAIT!! It’s still not done. Sunday is another full day of dance workshops followed by the cool down party. Ok now we’re done.
Don’t worry if you can’t dance, they have Beginners BoothCamp where you get a crash course in different styles of Latin Dance. By the end of the first session you will be able to look decent out on the dance floor. I have to say though that for the most part once you enjoy yourself it doesn’t matter what steps you do (well to me anyway).
The full weekend pass:
Register by January 31st by paying down TT$100 – Total Cost of TT$900
Register during 1st February 31st March by paying down TT$100 – Total Cost of TT$1,000
Register from 1st April – Total Cost of TT$1,100
And they have special room rates with the hotel if you decide to stay the weekend. Tip: Stay at a nearby hotel if not the host venue, all that party and dancing, you’ll want somewhere close to crash.
Message Carol at 680-2624 to register.
Otherwise just find somewhere to dance, there are many schools across Trinidad and Tobago and I guarantee parties are more fun when you can dance (in addition to wining).
NO I don’t mean start a street fight. I mean join a Martial Art group. I started Taekwondo with Edson Breedy Taekwondo Academy in La Joya last year. VIBEZ! You feel stronger even while knowing you pretty much suck at fighting. I expect any Martial Art would leave you feeling the same. Take up Boxing or Tai Chi or Karate.
If you can’t commit to joining a regular class Edson Breedy Taekwondo Academy will be hosting a sparring (fighting) clinic this year. Follow them on instagram or Facebook for updates. The school holds its regular classes on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 6:30 to 8:00pm at St Joseph and the first two classes are free, so you can try it with no strings attached before committing. Give it a shot, how many of you feel to hit someone on a regular? It may not be the person you want to hit but it eases some frustration and is a great way to get fit.
4. Attempt 1 thing that scares you
This could be anything. Afraid of heights? Zip line. Afraid of drowning? Take a swimming class. This is personal. This is for you to conquer a fear and feel powerful. It will make you feel empowered to take back control of your life.
5. Try a No-Spend Month
WHAT! I have bills!
I know it sounds impossible but hear me out. It takes preparation and does not mean you can’t spend a cent. It means that absolutely no unnecessary money will be spent this month. You have to prepare. Pay all you bills, buy groceries since you won’t be buying food out unless it cannot be helped (you will be out for the entire day and will not always have access to a microwave or fridge), check your toiletries, again only the necessities and get them beforehand. So for this month (or week if you want to start small) you don’t buy snacks, don’t buy that cute lipstick or spend money at that club. That one month you only do the necessary spends. Your entertainment should be free events where you can carry your food an drink, try the beach or the park or visit a friend’s house. Then at the end of the month check how much you have saved. Saving is a typical resolution that people almost never reach their target, this could help you evaluate what is realistic in terms of savings for you.
6. Do a Financial Check-up
This could just be listing out all your current account balances and debt balances. Check your income and standard expenditures, see where needs to be adjusted. Make it realistic. List your financial goals, adjust it to match your current financial situation. Check your insurances. If you don’t make that much money, maybe even minimum wage or just above, even $10 a week saving can and will add up. $10 a week is $520 a year. Put that into a Credit Union or high-yield savings account. In 10 years you have in excess of $5200. It may not seem like much now but it is easy to build up to that much but when you retire it would mean some change in your hand until pension can be sorted out, or can help your child buy books for university or pay rent during a hard phase.
But check up your finances, you may realize it is in better shape than you thought and can stop worrying, or you may realize you need to do better with something. Don’t be to hard on yourself, whatever you find but you have to know the complete situation before you can change it and sometimes by writing it down things become clearer than what you had in your head.
7. Attend a Cultural Show
Not a fete. Try a Best Village competition or a community talent show or concert. It does not have to cost much, it can be a free show. I recommend a government sponsored show, it is usually filled with little known local talent. Exceptional talent too. So go on try a cultural show, you may just end up liking it.
8. Get a Physical Health Check-up
There are enough health fairs that this does not have to mean it will cost you anything. Check your eyes, HIV status, Blood Pressure, Blood Glucose level, get a pap smear ladies and a prostate exam for you older gentlemen. We all like to think if nothing hurts then nothing is wrong but hypertension is called the silent killer for a reason. In addition, if something does hurt or has been hurting for years please go get it checked this year.. No excuses!
This does not have to be a regular thing. Volunteer Center Trinidad and Tobago, Habitat for Humanity, Is There Not A Cause, they all accept volunteers on an as needed basis, for one day or a few hours. Give back. Check out one of them or any other and volunteer at least once this year.
10. Learn another Language
Now this one will take some work but it is worth it. Studies have showed that this helps your brain and makes you incredibly attractive to the opposite sex. Well maybe.
And again this could be free. Try Duolingo or another language learning app, or Coursera or You Tube.
11. Learn a skill or trade
These are hard times, it is good to have a fall back trade or side hustle but first you have to learn the skill. My recommendation is learn something opposite to what you do all day. So if you are currently a tradesperson, try learning something academic or artistic. If you’re in the office all day, try learning to tile or some craft. It helps your brain learn in a new and different way and takes your body and mind out of the monotony of your day. Bonus: you may get a skill that you can make money off of it.
12. Treat yo’self!
If you already do this excessively, don’t. Just kidding, you worked hard, you need to enjoy your labours. You do not need to even spend much if anything on this. Treating yourself could be a simple taking a few hours for yourself, a slice of cake just for you, a foot soak or at home spa day. Do this every Month, you deserve it!
13. Plant a food crop
Hey, you are going to be glad to save that small price off your market goods. You can do simple herbs if you live in an apartment or concrete jungle or you can grow pumpkins or tomatoes or peppers. Some crops are very easy and require little maintenance but you feel like a badass adult when you can do all the other troubles of life AND successfully grow your own seasonings. Side note: chives and chadon beni practically grow themselves and you still feel accomplished having them grow in your home.
14. Go ‘Dark” for at least one day a month
Turn off all electronics and don’t answer your phone. Don’t even watch TV. Connect with people face to face, or don’t connect and take the time for yourself or working with your hands. Feel how much of a pull your cell phone has on you and resist it.
15. Visit somewhere new in your country
We spend our whole lives living somewhere and sometimes we never try the tourist activities. So tourists often have a very different view of our town or country than we do. The closer to home the better. The more touristy the better.
Please know that this list is in no particular order. This is one of my top resolutions after I found myself really surprised at how unkempt I found myself in public last year. I mean I was clean and everything but there was no extra effort to look decent. But for you regular people this will mean taking it up a notch when you go to events. Be your best version of you.
17. Perform for an audience
Again this is inexpensive and easily achievable. If you are talented you may even make some money from this. You can choose karaoke or an open mic show. You can even invite your friends over and announce to them there that you are going to sing, dance or act out a scene for them. Even if you need some liquid courage to do it first. It builds confidence and you should be a confident you.
18. Big Up Yuhself!
Relax, you’re awesome! Remind yourself of it, daily. Words of affirmation people. It is wonderful. Sometimes I walk down the street singing, “I’m bringing sexy back!” or “Who’s that girl?” and shake in the mirror. Love yourself and tell yourself everyday. Blow yourself a kiss when you pass a reflective surface, or give yourself a wink. Not all day eh people. Don’t be vain. Just remind yourself how awesome you are for surviving all that you have or for trying as hard as you do. Tell yourself what you need to hear to walk with confidence.
Your relationship with yourself is the longest one you will ever have, cherish it. Make every year a year of adventures and joy. Build relationships with others and value the relationships you have.
Cheers to another year!
~Ms Abby Kay~
I need your opinion!
So the picture above is a question in a standard 3 comprehension text. It has caused some controversy over which answer is correct B or C.
Can you answer the question correctly? Give an explanation for your answer please.
I’m in danger of losing myself in you but it’s the safest feeling that I’ve ever known.
All emotions are heightened when you’re near. Yet the world is the calmest than I’ve ever felt. It feels like a whirlwind that happened over centuries. The feeling just came and swept me away yet my soul has known you for a hundred years.
One day we’re just being, just enjoying each others company, the next I’m waking terrified from a nightmare where my world is in disarray from a dream where you took your love away.
I’ve never known a more peaceful feeling than sitting breathing the same air you’re breathing.
When we touch, lightning strikes and is instantly grounded. I hope we can touch forever but forever was never promised so I will enjoy today.
Tentative? Fuck tentative.
Be bold. Be sure. Make firm decisions.
Do it or don’t but make your choice and live with it.
Be sure of your choices. If circumstances change you are free to change your mind but don’t make a move and be unsure.
~~♡Ms Abby Kay♡~~